We all have goals, it may be to become more physically fit or to learn how to do something new. There is something that tugs at us on the inside to pursue. At one point in time, David and I set a goal to pay off our house. I began to look for unused things […]

We tend to get so focused on what we aren’t going to do that we end up doing exactly that. How many of us have made New Year’s resolutions only to see it in the rear view mirror after a few weeks. This happens because we don’t make that decision with resolve. We didn’t have […]

When something is in balance, it requires some amount of effort to get it out of balance. If you see balanced scales that become unbalanced, it is usually because weight was added to one side of the scales. An example of that is when we allow the baggage from the past to add weight to […]

We put fences up to keep things out and to keep things in. We put them up between us and our neighbors’ house to help us to get along. In an intimate relationship, fences or walls divide us instead of bringing us together. We get mad at each other and start using something to try […]