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Nicole Crank is a USA Today Best-Selling Author, dynamic international conference speaker, powerful life coach, pastor, and well-known television host of “The Nicole Crank Show,” that is broadcast around the world! Nicole and husband, David, are the Lead Pastors of FaithChurch.com, with eight campuses in Missouri, Illinois, Florida, and thousands more Online.

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August 7, 2019

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Nicole Crank is a USA Today Best-Selling Author, dynamic international conference speaker, powerful life coach, pastor, and well-known television host of “The Nicole Crank Show,” that is broadcast around the world! Nicole and husband, David, are the Lead Pastors of FaithChurch.com, with eight campuses in Missouri, Illinois, Florida, and thousands more Online.

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How do you react when somebody hurts you?

(I’m about to get brutally honest.)

Sometimes, I get upset when David says something that hurts my feelings. I’m really not mad…I’m SAD.

But, I’m not brave enough to admit to him that he has the power to hurt me. Because, somehow, that makes me feel like I’m “less.”

Is this too much to share?

I have to calm down, go into a separate room, and pray about it. I ask God to help me get ahold of it.

“Ok Nicole, you’re not mad, you’re just sad. Now, be a big girl and don’t say anything stupid in retaliation.”

Whatever you do, DON’T throw a fit and leave! Talk about it.

“Hey, you know, you kind of hurt my feelings.” Have enough courage to communicate how you REALLY feel! It’s hard, but you can do it!
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How do you handle hurt feelings? Can you tell me in one sentence?

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  1. Karen Foney says:

    I cry to God and ask Him to help me get through the hurt.

  2. Keisha Reeder says:

    I normally just leave and get mad.

  3. Lashonda says:

    I get sad and cry when my feelings are hurt

  4. Marinda Ferrell says:

    My Dear Pastor, as always you hit me where I live. Thank God for you feeding me wisdom through the word of God.

  5. Kim Dickerson says:

    Good afternoon, faith church has brought me so much to my life. Last night 8-6-19 the revival was amazing I feel set free. I am praying for my house to be sold. Faith church is my saving place I love you both. Thank you, kim

  6. Janice says:

    Nicole
    You blessed my heart today. I have so many people to forgive . Today I choose to forgive for real.

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