Gotta Let Go!

When my ex-husband left me, it REALLY hurt! It wasn’t even for another woman, he left me for drugs!

How do you compete with a drug?

I couldn’t figure it out. But now, 20 years later, I know. I wasn’t supposed to compete with the drugs…I was supposed to LET HIM GO!

Sometimes, we’re so busy holding on to the WRONG thing that our arms are not available to catch the blessing that God’s trying to give us.

I was trying to hold on to a man who didn’t want me. And all the time, God had my husband, David, in a holding pattern just waiting for me to get my act together and LET GO!

I don’t care if your spouse LEFT you, your mama ABANDONED you, or your daddy WALKED OUT before you were even born!

We NEVER have to beg somebody who’s walked away from us to come back and love us. If they exit our lives, our job in Christ is to just love them and let them go!

If they had belonged with us, they would have remained with us. So, their part in our destiny must be OVER!

Do you feel like you’re going in circles?

“God, why won’t you send me the mate I’m looking for? Why won’t you send me the job I want? Why won’t you send me the clients I need?”

God’s TRYING to move, but we’re too busy holding on to all that old stuff!

Make way for God’s BLESSING! Baby… you gotta LET GO!


Is there something or someone in your past that you’re still clinging to? Say “YES” and agree to LET IT GO, today!

8 Responses


    Yes! Thank you for a that. I needed that this morning. I love to read your stories. You are an amazing woman Nicole.
    I’m on a journey of letting go. Sometimes we don’t realize how much we need to give up. It’s a question that’s worth asking . God is ready to answer us! We just need the words to come out of our mouths.

  2. Becca Starrett

    This was exactly what I needed to hear today! I’m in the process of letting go of someone right now. It’s so hard to let go of what’s comfortable but I want to trust God with it even though every ounce of me wants to keep holding on. I know God is better, but please pray that I will be able to trust him beyond what I can see.

  3. Mary Ngaruma

    Thank you, l really pray to be a good steward with money. I use it very badly until l am unable to pay my tithes and offerings. Please pray for me.


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